We often think of ourselves in relationship to others. We think of ourselves as man/woman, daughter/son, husband/wife, mother/father etc.
How we fare in these roles that we play also is validated by our perception of others’ opinions of us. We build our whole identity on how we think we perform our roles and what others think of us.
In our space there is a constant conflict between what ‘should be’ and what is.
What is, is always a result of what we have worked towards.
We do not realise this and end up reprimanding our environment, our colleagues, our relationships; basically blaming everything and everyone. It is ironic that what we aspire towards, what we whole heartedly wish for, is exactly what we continue to work against.
Growing up we are taught all about good behaviour and Values, about selflessness and sacrifice, about how to be good to others and to spread happiness.
We all have martyrs in our families who go beyond themselves to help and be of service to their friends and family. They may be spreading happiness in their view, but are they happy?
Many of us know that creeping sense of dread and shame when we’ve been avoiding a task for too long and the d-day is fast approaching. It’s not just that the task is not done, but that you feel as if it’s your fault.
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In many contexts i.e. Learning a new skill, meeting a new person, we often loosely use the phrase: “empty your cup.”
Have you ever wondered what are we emptying?
One of the foundations of our being is beliefs and it would be safe to assume one of the things that we are empting is beliefs.
As you go through life does it get more mundane, or do you still wake up excited to face the day?
Children go through every moment of the day filled with curiosity and wonder at everything that they perceive and experience. They are observing and learning something new all the time.
Decision-making is a skill that most of us struggle with at the best of times; but sometimes, the methods we use create roadblocks for us. The good news is where there’s a will, there’s a way. Below are four simple rules for making decisions that will provide clarity, purpose and that decisiveness that you need before making your next important decision.
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Who do you see when you look into the mirror?
We often define ourselves by our physical appearance, our career and designation, the roles that we play within our family etc. We see ourselves are deficient in certain qualities, good at certain things, we may hear other’s voices when we define ourselves.
Does bad parenting really exist? No parents want anything bad for their kids. Parents sometimes use techniques that leave a detrimental effect on the child. Even though it may be unintentional, the damage is done. It needs awareness and patience to repair the damage.
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Do You Know That There Is Always A Way Out Of The Mess You May Find Yourself In?
Rima had come to De Mantraa with serious problems in her business; she was making losses in her factory and was unable to pay the instalments of the loan she had taken against it.
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