Stories We Tell Ourselves

We all go through life acting upon and from a set of beliefs that we have. Some are helpful beliefs while others make the journey of life quite painful. There is always a voice in our head which keeps talking to us. It congratulates us when the inner authority is happy and keeps nagging when it’s not.

What do I mean when I call that voice the ‘inner authority’?

We all go through millions of experiences in life and there is an outcome from each of them that we file away in our subconscious mind. To give a very simple example, a movie and dinner experience is rated in our mind and compared to other such outings and added on the scale that is stored back in the same file for future reference. Now comes a day when such an outing happens with a new aquaintance. If you notice, there would be a commentary going on in your mind, rating each and every moment of the event to past expereinces.

What does that voice speak about you?

It would be rating your thoughts and actions at every moment too. More than anyone or anything else, it is this voice that makes us happy or unhappy; for we are at peace when the inner voice says good, unhappy when it criticises us.It may be perceived by many as the ‘conscience’.

What is the conscience though, except what we have learnt from our parents, teachers, the environment around us? It is the judgement that we pass on our thoughts and actions.

Each such judgement comes usually from a childhood experience which has left an indelible print on our minds. From the perceptions of childhood we form judgements about our environment, from our unhappy experiences we form the beliefs about ourselves. These become the authority or what we hold as the truths of our life for us.

The journey at De Mantraa makes your relationship with that inner voice/authority a friendly one. At each level of work done with us, the inner voice calms down and gets more soothing.

We at De Mantraa take care of the roots and make life joyful and successful for our clients.